A Beginner's Guide to Electrosex
"Ouch, isn't that dangerous?" chimed my new submissive as I told him about Erotic Electro-Stimulation. (Shortened to Erotic Electrostim) ...
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Ashley Chen
- Nov 4, 2022
- 1 min
An ode to October
Paradoxical Death Spring's first green is gold, blossoming, flourishing. Summer's after glow was mellow, as gold turns into dust. But...
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Ashley Chen
- Oct 6, 2022
- 2 min
Three Years a Dominatrix
Reflect. October marks three years since I became a Professional Dominatrix. This year, I opt not to partake in celebration, but to...
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Ashley Chen
- Sep 21, 2022
- 2 min
Reflections on my San Francisco tour
As I wrap up my San Francisco tour, I reflected on what this trip truly meant to me. Was it taking life on the slow lane (Yes, the Amtrak...
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Ashley Chen
- May 11, 2022
- 3 min
A Beginner's Guide to Anal Play/Bottoming
Oscar Wilde once said, 'Everything is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.'. Whether the great Irish poet said something so vastly...
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Singapore BDSM
- Jan 22, 2022
- 3 min
It's time to talk about sexual shame
We start to learn about sexual shame from the world around us - starting from the teachings we receive from our parents as a kid
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Singapore BDSM
- Nov 25, 2021
- 6 min
To find a way into someone else's life, we must find a way out of ours
December 2015 was when I first experienced the wintery depths of Northeastern United States.
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Singapore BDSM
- Nov 8, 2021
- 3 min
Understanding Submission and Ownership
A vast countryside in rural Illinois. It is midsummer noon and the sun is beating down fiercely on our lush, well-tended farmland.
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Singapore BDSM
- Oct 26, 2021
- 2 min
Two Years a Dominatrix
The autumnal equinox ushers in the cooler weather as the year slowly begins to wind down into its final months. Today, this month in...
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Singapore BDSM
- Oct 10, 2021
- 6 min
My First Year As A Professional Dominatrix
Mistress Wei's reflection on her one year as a professional dominatrix. She details 5 valuable lessons & what she envisions for 2022
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Singapore BDSM
- Sep 21, 2021
- 3 min
Sexual Wellness in the Midst of a Pandemic
The curtailment of social activities since the outbreak of the COVID-19 pandemic as Singapore moved from a circuit breaker, various...
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Singapore BDSM
- Aug 19, 2021
- 3 min
BDSM and Therapeutic Healing
More often than not, BDSM has been pathologized and stigmatised as sexual disorders, or at best, sexual deviancy and fantasy fodder. The...
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Singapore BDSM
- Jun 5, 2021
- 3 min
That about Sadism...
BDSM is not a new phenomenon - its history arises from the convergence of varying cultural, historical, gender, sexual and erotic...
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Singapore BDSM
- May 22, 2021
- 2 min
The Day Before
Perfectly manicured with impeccable makeup. Pristine, alluring and beautiful. The Goddess & Mistresses you thirsted after, as you steal a...
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Singapore BDSM
- May 9, 2021
- 2 min
As a Professional Dominatrix
Being a professional dominatrix isn't just about smacking asses, tying boys up and taking their tribute. As a professional and a kink...
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Singapore BDSM
- Apr 5, 2021
- 4 min
The Secrets We Keep
How well do you know your dominatrixes in your life? Many may know me as a perverse deviant honed in the art of fear and discipline;...
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Singapore BDSM
- Mar 2, 2021
- 1 min
What is BDSM?
Formally seen as a deviant sexual activity, BDSM was initially popularised by Fifty Shades of Grey, and more recently, Netflix's hit...
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Singapore BDSM
- Feb 1, 2021
- 7 min
A beginner's guide to getting started in kink & BDSM in Singapore
New to kink & BDSM in Singapore? Starting a FetLife profile, joining a BDSM/kink community to meet likeminded kinksters may be daunting.
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