Question 1

How would you like to be addressed?

Accepted Answer

During sessions, you should use my honourific, 'Goddess'. Outside of sessions, you may address me as 'Ms Ashley'.

Question 2

Why should I choose a Professional Dominatrix?

Accepted Answer

Choosing a Professional Dominatrix means investing in a safe and expertly guided exploration of your kinks and deepest fantasies. As a Professional with over 10 years in the lifestyle, I am well-trained and honed in my trade:
Expertise and Safety: Safety is always a priority, and I adhere to SSC and RACK principles. I prioritize your well-being through comprehensive pre-session screnings and strict adherence to safe words, limits and boundaries. 
Tailored Sessions: As a Dominatrix with a wide repertoire of skills, I am able to curate each session around your interests and comfort levels.
Discretion and Professionalism: Your privacy is paramount. My practice adheres to the highest standards of discretion and professionalism, ensuring that your secrets stay safe with me.
Empowerment and Personal Growth: Whether you’re seeking to break routine, challenge personal limits, or explore aspects of your identity, a professional dominatrix provides a supportive space for transformative self-discovery.

Question 3

Are you suitable for me?

Accepted Answer

I practice holistic dominance  - the marrying of the body, mind and spirit, where holistic kink is a channel for somatic transformational experiences, and to empower individuals to rewrite their own narratives and reclaim self-identification. I do have a wide repertoire of skills and interests; and I am a huge shibari and latex enthusiast.

However, it is best to do your own research, you can find out more about me at on my blog, or read my media interviews.

Question 4

Is it safe and discreet?

Accepted Answer

Safety
Safety is a top priority to me. I do not engage in high risk play, and adhere to SSC and RACK principles. I prioritize your well-being through comprehensive pre-session screenings and strict adherence to safe words, limits and boundaries. In addition, I am also certified in CPR and first aid. I also adhere to strict protocols of cleaning and sterilization before and after every session. Isopropyl alcohol, chlorhexidine gluconate, hydrogen peroxide and the likes are part of my cleaning and sterilization protocols.

Privacy & Discretion
Your privacy is paramount. No photos or videos will be taken during the session unless you have expressly consented to them. All information requested from you during vetting will be deleted after we meet. My practice adheres to the highest standards of discretion and professionalism, ensuring that your secrets stay safe with me.

Question 5

What type of people do I see?/Do I see newbies?

Accepted Answer

I believe that kink should be inclusive and is for everyone. I love playing with all types of folks, regardless of their gender identity, experience, or sexual orientation.

As a kink educator at heart, I find it purposeful to be a guide to new subissives along their journey through kink.

Question 6

How do I book a session?

Accepted Answer

To book a session with me, simply scroll down to the bottom of the page and fill out the contact form. Dropping me a note detailing your kinks and why I should consider you.

Please be aware that all sessions require further vetting and must be scheduled a minimum of 48 hours in advance.

Question 7

I do not like pain. Am I still suitable?

Accepted Answer

Yes of course! As an experienced Dominatrix, I enjoy a wide variety of kinks. Please visit My Femdom Sessions page to find out more about how your time with me could be.

As I continue to explore and embrace my evolving kink identity, feel free to reach out if you would like a further consult about a particular kink you may have.

Question 8

Can I bring a gift when I come for the session?

Accepted Answer

Gifts and tips are always appreciated. For starters, you may check out my Amazon wishlist.

In general, here are some items that I'd appreciate:
Whiskey: Balvenie, Oban
Room/decor: Jo Malone Diffuser

Question 9

Do you travel outside of Singapore for sessions?

Accepted Answer

When I’m not in Singapore, I am most likely back in San Francisco. However, I frequently go on Femdom Tours, visiting new destinations to cater to enthusiasts like yourself.  I take immense pleasure in traversing the globe to connect with fellow kinksters and the local communities

I also do Fly Me To You (FMTY) sessions as a viable alternative. Simply reach out to me, and we can explore this possibility together.

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