"Ouch, isn't that dangerous?" chimed my new submissive as I told him about Erotic Electro-Stimulation. (Shortened to Erotic Electrostim) No, electrostim is not electrocution. While in essence, it is the passing of electric current through the body, electrostim (aka "electrosex") play does not pass electricity through the mains, but rather, a low voltage through a power box. These battery-charged power boxes function like a power source, controlling the electrical current that is passed through our bodies, and are inherently safer as the voltage of the control power box is limited by its battery supply.
While the use of electricity for sexual stimulation may sound erotic, electrostim does in fact have its usefulness in everyday life.
Definitions to know about Electrosex
Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation Transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation, also known as TENS, is typically used in pain management in physiotherapy and arthritis management. It is also used in period pain management. According to the NHS, electrical impulses from the TENS unit can reduce pain signals, which may help alleviate pain and relax muscles.
Electronic Muscle Stimulation
In Electronic muscle stimulation (EMS), electrodes are applied to key muscle groups, which sends electrical signals to the muscles and causes repeated contractions. The contractions and relaxation of the muscles stimulated by electricity are similar to voluntary contraction of muscles during strength training, and is commonly used in physical therapy, or fat burning.
Now back to Erotic Electrostim..
Electrostim works by passing a low voltage current through your body, stimulating the sensitive nerve endings underneath your skin. Sensations vary from a mild tickling, which can be pleasurable to the senses, to pulsating and throbbing prickly contractions of your muscles, creating a euphoric blend of pain and pleasure.
Stimulating your nerves also make your skin more sensitive and alert towards touches from your partner, elevating sensations and pleasure. The typical sex toy merely vibrates externally, but electrastim devices can deliver both skin and muscle-deep sensations like never before!
The aim of electrostim isn't always about causing pain, but to find the sweet spot that causes a euphoric blend of pain and pleasure. It promotes a platform for total power exchange, facilitating the expression and exploration of vulnerabilities and trust with your partner. In fact, electrostim doesn't need to feel painful, unless you are using a high-powered setting on Electrastim's power box! But of course if you are into pain, Electrastim's devices never disappoints.
Where can I use it on? Electrodes can be connected to an electrostim power box and attached to your erogenous zones, such as:
Inner thigh - the area near your genitals are thin and will be more sensitive towards electric currents
Penis shaft, balls, perineum - CBT, need I say more?
Vulva - blood vessels dilate, making the genitals extremely sensitive to sensations
Anus or vagina - you have been penetrated before, but have you been electro-penetrated?
As kinky as it sounds, do not attach any electrodes onto the nipples! In fact, it is not recommended to attach any electrodes above the waist, such nipples, tongue or ears, as the proximity of electric current may disrupt the heart's nature sinus rhythm. In addition, do not explore electostim if you have a pacemaker or you are pregnant.
Got it, how do I get started with electrostim?
Electrastim has a wide variety of electrostim devices for novice and advanced players.
Firstly, you need a power box:
Electrastim's Axis Luxury Electro Stimulator is a high-spec dual output power box that delivers multiple waveforms of electric outputs. The Axis Luxury Electro Stimulator has two output channels, which allows you to plug in various electrodes to be attached to your body. Next, you need some basic electrodes. They include:
Electrapads, which are sticky pads which can be stuck (and re-stuck) to any body parts - genitals or buttocks
Adjustable Rubber Electro Cockrings - you can adjust and fasten these to the length of your penis shaft
ElectraClamp BiPolar Electro Clamp - Again, as tempting as these may be, do not attach them to your nipples. They are best suited for the vulva or scrotum.
To begin, attach the electrodes to your body, and plug them into the power box. Ensure that the power box is off. When ready, slowly dial up the power and embrace the sensations! Elecrastim's Axis Luxury Electro Stimulator has 40+ over wave modes.
Let's take it up a notch!
With electrostim, the possibilities are endless. Electrastim power boxes and electrodes allows for varying forms of play, be it solo or partnered. Here are some of my top picks:
Partnered electro-sex - Share the stimulation with your partner! Attach an electropad each to the crotch/vulva area, when your bodies move in unison during penetrative strokes. It closes the electric circuit for a more stronger connectivity, resulting in a kinky twist to lovemaking!
Electro penetration - You have been fucked, but have you been electro-fucked? Strap on Electrastim's Silicone Fusion Komodo Electro Dildo to your strap-on harness, lube up for an electrifying time with each stroke. For prostate play, you have the Silicone Fusion Habanero Electro Prostate Massager.
Wave modes getting too boring? Turn on your favourite tunes and use the microphone mode on the Axis Luxury Electro Stimulator, and the electric delivery pulses according to the tune! (Pro tip: Do it in a quiet room without informing your submissive of the microphone mode, and watch him shock himself every time he groans!)
Dominatrix's Verdict
Electrostim provides stimulations varying from prickly and intriguing to challenging and intense, and will take even the seasoned submissive by surprise. Increasingly, I do find Electrastim to be unmatched in achieving earth-shattering orgasmic highs, compared to the vibrations from other sex toys that just won't do.
The last time I used the Silicone Fusion Komodo Electro Dildo, let's just say we helped my submissive discover vocal noises that we never even knew he was capable of producing. QED.
Final Verdict
While electrostim may seem quite a leap for most folks to venture into, the endless possibilities of fun may actually charge up your sex life! (Pun intended and unintended). Good sexual experiences go beyond our genitals, and is more about our entire bodies. Pushing the boundaries of our bodies while uncovering something new about ourselves each time - there's nothing more empowering than that.
Where to buy Electrastim ships discreetly globally: https://www.electrastim.com
Disclosure The Silicone Fusion Komodo Electric Dildo and the Silicone Fusion Habanero Electro Prostate Massager was sponsored by the great guys at Electrastim. This however, does not sway my opinions on the product, or any other product I review.
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